Oral sex is something that is still quite taboo. In fact, it's something that friends don't typically sit around and talk about. Women can have best friends, but they won't tell one another that they perform oral sex on their boyfriends, husbands, or anyone. Men are the same way, they won't tell their friends that they perform oral sex on the woman in their life, but both sexes are open to discussing the fact that they receive it! What's wrong with this picture? Why is there something negative or dirty associated with being the one that performs oral sex? With so many people out there receiving, someone has to be giving, so why not admit it to your friends or those that you discuss your sex life with?

Where the negativity comes from is anyone's guess, but it is really something that should be done away with already! Oral sex is just one more way to express your attraction to and love of another person. There is no reason to be ashamed of your enjoyment of oral sex, on both the receiving and giving side of things. It's understandable that both men and women feel a little bit intimidated of oral sex when they first step into the oral sex arena, but it's something that the majority of us do, and really enjoy.

There is a fear by both men and women that they are not 'good' at oral sex. If you have good communication with the people that you are sexual with, you can ask what they like, what they don't like, and what you could do different to make the oral sex experience even more pleasurable. When you bring oral sex into your sex life that you share with someone, you have reached a level of intimacy that should allow you to express what you do and do not like. If you are able to communicate you can be sure that you will be good and get good oral sex, if not, you can take your chances!

The bottom line is that oral sex is something to be enjoyed, and is not something that should be hidden or considered shameful. When you perform such sexual acts you are simply making someone feel good, which makes you feel good. Isn't that what sex is all about? If so, why be ashamed? Next time someone asks you if you are into oral sex, don't lie! Tell it like it is!