Many believe that the reason they are not suited for monogamous relationships is that the sex with one person gets old after a while. The truth is, sex with one person never has to get boring or routine if you pay your sex life the correct amount of attention. The fact is, if two people are willing to work at making their sex life very diverse, and anything but routine, they won't have any reason to look outside of a marriage or relationship for more titillating sexual encounters. For those that really make the effort, sex within marriage can be even more exciting as sex with people you hardly know or people you just met, as in addition to the exciting sexual acts there is a deeper connection that can only be experienced within a relationship. If you're willing to put in the work sex will always be amazing and that's got to be worth working for.

The key is to constantly try new things. Don't fall prey to routine, instead keep things spontaneous. This is undoubtedly the main ingredient in the recipe for a long, happy relationship. Married couples that aren't afraid to take advantage of that half an hour on the living room floor find that sex is anything but dull! When you limit yourselves to sex in the bedroom at night it's easy to get bored. The simple answer to this? Don't limit yourselves! If you keep having spontaneous sex like you did when you first met you'll want to continue to have sex with one another and you won't be looking for anyone else. Keeping the desire for one another alive is an important thing, and learning to have sex when the mood hits, not according to some schedule, will help you do just that!

Not only should you be spontaneous, you should think outside the box. Visit websites or stores in your cities that sell sex toys, videos, and even costumes that you can use every so often to role play for fun! Having all of these things adds an element of excitement to your sex life that will help keep you both on edge because you can continue to change it up! Experimentation is a good thing, and couples that aren't afraid to play with sex toys, watch videos together, and role play will not only have better sex over the course of their marriage, they will be less inclined to look outside of the marriage to fulfill their sexual desires.